Monday, September 26, 2011

Relationship and Love


You Can Get Her Back

By Awodola Joshnson

Breakup is no easy time for anyone, any human being. And you need to be really serious if you want to get your ex girlfriend back to you. Here you will learn some tips that can help you to get onto the right track. In this article you will learn how to make yourself in control of your emotions and as well as the reason why you shouldn't push your ex-girlfriend into acting. You will also realize that it is always good to be a gentleman to your ex girlfriend.

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Don't Let Emotions Take Control

You will feel very sad and down right after a breakup and you will be surrounded by all the bad emotions. Sometimes you will go crazy thinking about your girlfriend. And you just want to call her or text her and tell her how much you love her and you can't live without her...You know what,these kinds of things won't help. And in the long run they will do more harm than good. You really need to listen to your brain not your heart. That means you should be aware of what you are doing. Don't let emotion take control of you.

Don't Push Your Ex Girlfriend So Hard

A few weeks later, when you can think clearly and you feel like to talk to your ex girlfriend without going nuts and crazy, then you can call your friends and let them know your ideas. The best case scenario is that she calls you first. It is true that your ex girlfriend will possible think about you first.

But under no circumstances should you start to push your ex girlfriend into doing anything. You will start a healthy and normal friendship with her first. Talk to her about the casual stuff. Be happy and be nice. You just want her to know that you can deal with it and your can handle your own life.

Be Gentle And Nice All The Time

She will begin to feel conformable to go out with you on a dinner or a movie.Every time you meet, be gentle and nice. Be cool and confident. Nobody likes a pathetic loser; we all like those people who can handle their own life.Well after some time she will feel comfortable enough to meet for a coffee or something. So, when she calls to you arrange for a meeting in the near future , do not act so cranky or start to talk to her about get back together on a rush. Let her feel comfortable and be nice to her and she might make the move.